Today’s post is a guest post by a Christian husband – answering a wife’s question. This wife has been working on respect and biblical submission for about 6 months, and doesn’t understand why sometimes her husband tells her that he doesn’t want to lead in their marriage. (PS – just so everyone is aware –… Continue reading A Husband Answers – “Why Won’t My Husband Lead?”
Are you tired of your husband not leading like you know he should? Maybe there is something deeper going on.
During a time of crisis, it is more important than ever to be sensitive to all the ways God may want to lead you.
What is the difference between a wife being responsible for herself spiritually and a husband being the spiritual leader of the family?
I used to think that my husband had to lead in a certain way in order for God to lead me through him. His personality should be a lot more like mine, of course, for him to lead “properly.” I believed we needed a long list of things I thought were great ideas – lots… Continue reading Does My Husband Have to Have a Long Range Plan to Lead Our Family?
A REMINDER: I write from the slant of a wife who was dominating, Type A personality, take-charge, controlling, overly responsible, overly “helpful” and prideful with a passive husband. If you tend to be too quiet or have a very dominant husband, my slant may not be the angle you need because you are going to… Continue reading Ways Husbands Lead that Wives Often Don’t Notice – From the Archives
(NOTE: I write from the perspective of a formerly controlling, Type A, perfectionistic, driven, prideful, disrespectful wife with a passive husband. If your husband is very dominating or if he is abusive – my blog may not be a good fit for you, please seek godly help. It is possible to be TOO respectful and… Continue reading My Husband Isn’t Being a Good Enough Spiritual Leader – from the Archives
Greg and April Nov. 2013 Ultimately, each wife must prayerfully decide what she believes God wants her to do to obey Him and to honor Him in her unique situation. God has wisdom. I do not. I write specifically for wives who tend to be controlling and dominating. Wives who tend to be more quiet… Continue reading My Husband Won’t Lead in Our Marriage – Part 3
Ultimately, each wife must prayerfully decide what she believes God wants her to do to obey Him and to honor Him in her unique situation. God has wisdom. I do not. I write specifically for wives who tend to be controlling and dominating. Wives who tend to be more quiet and have dominating husbands may… Continue reading My Husband Won’t Lead in Our Marriage – Part 2
Administrative Note: I am taking an email vacation through January 6th. You are welcome to comment on posts, but please hold emails for me until January 7th. I appreciate your patience and understanding! 🙂 “I’M THE SPIRITUALLY MATURE ONE, I HAVE TO LEAD” It is a VERY tough position to be in to want to… Continue reading My Husband Won’t Lead in Our Marriage – Part 1