Is It Possible to “Disrespect Myself”?

  God’s design for us as godly women is that we are first to have utmost reverence for Him as LORD of our lives and as the sovereign King of the universe. We are also to respect ourselves, our husbands, and all other people. Another way of describing “respecting ourselves” that may be even more […]

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“Why Is My Wife So Disrespectful?” – by Peacefulwife

Here’s something for the husbands. Ladies, for some of you, this is not going to be a productive use of  your time because it may be a trigger for negative or sinful thinking. Some of you will probably do better focusing on what God calls you to do on your end of the marriage relationship. […]

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How Disrespectful Was I?

I had a talk with Greg this past week and, out of curiosity, asked him if he would rank my level of disrespect earlier in our marriage on a 1-10 scale with 10 being the MOST DISRESPECTFUL wife he had ever seen. He said, “You were probably about a 4 or a 5.” I knew […]

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How to Avoid Becoming a Controlling/Disrespectful Wife

A newlywed posed this question to me, “How can I avoid becoming a controlling/disrespectful wife?” Goodness, this topic could be a book in and of itself. I have many posts about respect that will be helpful. Spiritual Authority  – God’s design structure for spiritual authority in our lives in marriage, business, government and the church […]

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Signs that Your Husband Feels Disrespected (and Unloved)

Some of this post is inspired by a Fellow Wife’s email with her permission. Some of it I have written myself from my experience or other wives’ experiences.  If your husband is saying things like this – it means he is probably feeling deeply wounded in your marriage.  Please keep in mind that husbands need […]

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Some Signs Your Husband May Be Feeling Disrespected

This is an email from a precious friend of mine.  If your husband is saying things like this – it means he is probably feeling deeply wounded in your marriage.  Please keep in mind that husbands need respect like wives need love.  (Ephesians 5:22-33 and Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs).  If a husband […]

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Figuring Out What is Disrespectful to Your Man

Here is a way that one wife decided to approach her husband with the list on my site about what  feels disrespectful to husbands.  I love the way she handled this.  Maybe it might give you some inspiration, too?  I am so glad to be learning and walking beside you on this road. 🙂 My […]

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My Disrespect and Controlling Behavior Don't Just Hurt My Husband!

My husband was watching a singing competition on TV recently.  There were many contestants auditioning.  Most of them got the same bad news.  “You’re not good enough.  You’re not going to make it to the next round.  It’s a ‘no’.”  Some people accepted that answer with sadness and humility.  Some people could not accept what […]

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